Familiar with this scene. Looking for more. Enjoy the profile. Formerly monogamous sexless marriage left me starving for pleasure. No longer starving , I find I have a new set of challenges. The right lover lights a fire in me and sets ablaze an insatiable appetite. Now, I am wide eyed and looking to find the right partner, the right balance and explore the endless possibilities that passion & pleasure have to offer. I am open to new things but am by nature pretty plain vanilla for this site. Although, after one month on here my purity score had already dropped by 7%. Feb 2009 Update.... I dropped another 3%. Commonly asked is.... what did you do that dropped your score? Well the first 7% drop was detailed in my blog stories before this site converted to GItO and they were not stored. The last 3% was from having sex with someone whom at the time unbeknownst to me is 20 yrs older and giving anal sex a try. I plagiarized this from another unnamed members profile: Sex can be the most expressive, exciting, exhausting, exhilarating, experience EVER!! Not to mention it's the very best exercise EVER!!!! (and that was just some of the E's!!) I have always heard that women reach their prime around my age...I am certainly finding that to be true!! Unfortunately my relationship situation doesn't give me a lot of opportunity to truly appreciate this fact. I love to look at all of the gorgeous men on here. I may even decide to pick one or two of you to help fulfill my primal urges.... Will you help me to add a bit of excitement and variety to my workout routine? Now for the dirty talk: I am a lady who has a naughty side and wants to fuck. I want a man with a rock hard cock that I can sit on and please. I want it inside me now! I love to ride. I love to fuck. I like to suck. I want your cum. When we are done the lady will reappear. Are you a dirty talker? The more you talk the better we are able to please each other. I am more of a responder than an initiator. For example I like someone who can tell me when it feels good and talk during sex...i don't want to be called a "bitch" or "" or "slut" but I want to hear things like..."does that cock feel good in your tight pussy?" or "god, I love the way you suck my cock...it feels so fucking good" talk like that or do this or that for me. Are you thinking I am promiscuous? I am a very sexual creature who enjoys all of what I have shared here and more yet undisclosed. But, at the same time I am not indiscriminate. I am choosy and I have always had no more than one sexual partner at a time, serial monogamy. Thus the faithful, sexless monogamous marriage. What does it mean to me when I say I have "a little extra padding"? My current measurements are: 38DD (Bra size 38 or 40, Cup size DD or E depending on brand) They are the original model in case that matters. 35 waist 42 hips. No goal. Just lots of Fun and Belly Dancing Classes to build my abs. I am told that I have an unexpected hourglass curves w/ two big bumps in the right place. Remember, I am 5'9. Exercise refines, tones and sculpts my curvy figure. Again I ask: would you like to help me to add a bit of excitement and variety to my workout routine? Someone sent me this(I've edited) and it sounds enticing!: How wonderful it would be to have someone softly, slowly caress my smooth skin. Then to encounter sweet sexy breasts, sensitive to touch. First the sensation of feeling them through my lacy bra, taking the time to feel every inch of them, to feel their sweet weight in your hands as you nuzzle and kiss my neck. Acting slowly to unhook my bra while slipping underneath to softly tug on each nipple. I wonder if they would begin to tingle as you nibble on my earlobe? Caressing them.. rolling each nipple between your fingers.....will I softly moan? Or perhaps gasp? will my breasts beg for more attention? Will I wonder how sweet your tongue will feel rolling over each nipple and gently sucking? Maybe a tiny nibble. Oh how wonderful to softly suck and give them sweet bites! mmmmmmm want to continue??? How much fun will you have kissing your way down my stomach? Tons I bet! nibbling and caressing my skin with your lips. Right down to my inner thigh. Way up high close to my pussy. How I would like you to slowly run your tongue up and down my thighs....laying me back and spreading my legs wide. Gazing on my beautiful pussy. Looking deeply into my eyes as your tongue begins to explore. Slowly at first.... faster then..... licking and sucking....... running your tongue softly up and down the very tip of my pussy lips. Will they swell and flush to your touch?.... will my sweet pussy juice start to flow? Do you like the sweet and wonderful taste? MMMmmm tell me will you like it when you find a trimmed, shaved pussy for your tongue to lick and my clit extra sensitive to the tip of your tongue? OR maybe this: I meet you in a hotel room... we greet each other with passionate kisses as you undresses me... followed by mutually teasing oral titillation ... gently teasing my clitoris with your cock before it slides gently and slowly into me with me on my back... going deeper and faster with each escalating moan...pulling out to get me on my knees and going in from behind... deliberate strokes in and out only stopping to pull me up my back against your chest while you play with my nipples while I rub my clit .... kissing me deeply... then you lay down and i ease myself slowly down on your cock riding and rocking back and forth and grinding around and around and squeezing you ever so slightly from inside while you play with my tits and i rub my clit and we kiss passionately. Are you a Frog or a Prince of men? A wise man has told me that I will need to kiss a few frogs to find someone who will fulfill my needs. While I am not looking to find a prince the most basic tenants of respect are a requirement. If you are thinking of me let me know about it... flirt, send an email, text or call. If you do not do that after we talk on the phone or meet in person I will presume you have found someone else who is more interesting to you at the moment and I will put you on the back burner (so to speak). While I would very much like to explore the possibility of play time with you I will never be a bootie . I am a port of choice not just "any port in a storm". I have responsibilities in my life which require me to plan and schedule my play activities ahead of time. Interactions with members on this site have helped me to more specifically determine what I am looking for here and what I am not looking for. I am looking for a single partner not one night stands with multiple new partners . I need to find someone with whom the chemistry and sex is addictively satisfying and whom would like to go out regularly and spend time together in fun places. I appreciate and need affection as a part of the sexual experience. Pure detachment and focus only on the sex act is not satisfying to me. I am not chasing the BIG O. I have become proficient at satisfying myself. Yet, something is missing.... The time I am available is very limited so I am not expecting exclusivity. I did not get on this website to find a life partner or love. But, I am looking for both. In fact, I first wrote here that if I sensed that possibility I would run away from it. Than, I changed it to may run away from it. Now, I know I would not run away from it. In fact it is what I really want. NSA is easy to say, but in reality very hard to do. I have a heart and like to use it. When my journey here began, I was not open to anything other than a pleasure cruise for which the duration was up for discussion. That has evolved into I want a pleasure cruise everyday for the rest of my life. Preferably with one person. What does NSA mean to me? Online I found a definition which sates that NSA is really a new term for ONS, One Night Stands. The definition further states that there is no type of relationship and there is a desire & willingness to have sex without the necessity of a relationship. Basically, having fun without any obligations beyond the moment or we do what we do and do not ever have to see each other again. Which is casual sex free from all responsibilities associated with a romantic relationship. That is not what I am looking for. But, I accept that in the process of my search I may decide to have some experiences like that. However, if so they will need to be agreed upon ahead of time. Be honest about what you want from me I may be open to it. But, I will not appreciate being led on just as you would not appreciate being teased and strung out and never meeting in person. I will need to get to know you, form a relationship of trust with you with the upfront understanding that either of us have the ability to end contact at anytime. I will say that if and when ending contact happens a respectful explanation and goodbye are appreciated. Preferably not via email. Which is a bit of a string. But, I consider it to be basic respect. I am of the opinion that after the deed is done both people usually have already decided if they want or do not want to have contact with their partner again. So, NSA for me means no involvement in our personal lives and that the relationship (yes I said there would need to be a relationship) is based upon sexual intimacy which may be part of a friendship that forms. I expect honesty, mutual respect and open communication. I also desire the fun of going out as if on a date for the purpose of building sexual tension with affection & flirtation. Everything else is negotiable. OK, I guess now you have gathered that I am particular, can't help it....I would just prefer to live my life with LOTS of gratifying SEX & PLEASURE... and no wasted effort. The process: How it works best for me and saves you wasted time. 1. We chat on AFF email or IM. - Tell me what you are looking for with me, what kind of love style you have & what your definition of NSA is. 2. Next we can chat over the phone. 3. Next we can exchange face pics. 4. We can set up a meeting. This first meeting is without obligation for anything and is for the purpose of seeing if there is chemistry and getting past that awkward feeling. Don't worry, I will pay my half. 5. If we set up a meeting and you are a no show or a last minute cancellation I will block you and there will be no second chance. In other words be honest & do not waste my time. 6. If we do decide to connect and play: My place is always and forever OFF LIMITS! 7. CONDOMS ONLY! This is written in my profile Q&A section. Restated here as I have discovered that many do not read the entirety of what I have written. Please do not ask me to join your friends network I do not kiss and tell. Never have and never will.:-) That is except for the experiences I have shared here.

Living in:	Overland Park, Kansas, United States
Travel Location:	Prefer not to say
Hometown:	AbitofEveryRegion, California

I am a Woman interested in Men

I'm not perfect by any means, but I am very smart. I really need the same in order to connect with any intensity.

And of course there are physical aspects...I really love tall men. I am a very curvy (real) woman, "blessed by the Boob Fairy" as it were...I am not a BBW, but I will never be skinny, nor do I care to be. I like a man's hands on me to be big and strong, that usually only comes with height. Plus I love to wear my heels!!!

Chemistry trumps looks, plain and simple. I am an attractive lady and I look for the same, but making me laugh or swoon will get my panties off quicker than Patron!!

Ok. I really do want a single partner who is into me. I want a part time relationship if that is possible. I need a partner who is willing to start with plain vanilla and if it tastes good begin to add flavor & spice. I appreciate a man who knows how to make love with a woman for hours and also enjoys a quickie. I need man who is able to communicate his fantasies in a way that allows us both to participate in playing them out.

I need a man who can lead me and will allow me to contribute, sometimes by letting me take the lead. I need a man who knows how to accept no for an answer and can negotiate without having to be in complete control.

Again Plagiarized:

Work like you don't need the money.
Love like you've never been hurt.
Dance like nobody's watching.
Sing like nobody's listening.
Live like it's your last day on Earth.

Height:	tall
Body Type:	Average
Hair Color:	Brown
Hair Length:	Long
Eye Color:	Hazel
Glasses or Contacts:	None
Race:	Caucasian
Bra Size:	C

Sexual Orientation:	Straight
Education:	Some grad school
Smoking:	I'm a non-smoker
Drinking:	Light/social drinker
Drugs:	Does not use drugs
Gambling:	Don't gamble
Speaks:	English

Looking For A:	Man
Who is interested in:	1-on-1 sex
Age Between:	35-50
Maximum Distance:	50 km
Body Type:	Average
Height:	tall
Race:	Caucasian
Sexual Orientation:	Straight
Education:	Some college, Some grad school
Smoking:	I'm a non-smoker
Drinking:	Does not drink, Light/social drinker
Drugs:	Does not use drugs
Gambling:	I gamble occasionally
Speaks:	English